'Good Enough' in a relationship is good enough
Experts are now saying "It's a fantasy to think you'll achieve perfection in a relationship. Chemistry, while important, is not all-important, and the "soul mate" concept sets the bar unrealistically high. "
Well, in my opinion, which consists of dating at least 30 different men in my life, and marrying 2 of them, that I am deliriously happy that I found someone who I have phenomenal chemistry with, who I am certain is my soul mate. Is our relationship perfect? It has bump and blips, but despite the occasional oddness, yes. It is perfect "For Me." After the dating and the failed first marriage, I knew what I wanted and wasn't going to settle for anything less. Perhaps I got fortunate to find him, but I can't imagine what life would be like any way else. I can't imagine a better matched partner for me than Brian.
So...Good Enough may be ok for some, but I've never been content with "Good Enough"